Fathers are the happiest people when they come to know that we are pregnant. But how exactly do they cope with us and our tantrums and mood swings while we have our hormonal episodes? I have read somewhere that a woman becomes a mother as soon as she realizes that she is pregnant. She starts showering love and abundance of care to the tiny being growing inside of her. A man on the other hand becomes a father only when he actually sees, feels and carries the baby in their arms. From there on there is no bounds to the joy, the love and the care they shower these babies with. Thses babies are blood and flesh of them and the love they feel towards these humans are the highest that they would actually feel for any other being. As a father, he wants to be there for all the firsts of the baby, do new things with the baby. As boys usually never would have much contact with other babies while they were younger, their own baby becomes their first doll, to play with and to dress up. While we women are self obsessed during our pregnant days, we are almost selfish too, the husband man is under a lot of stress and tension. If a mother is worried about how her baby will be, a husband is worried twice as much, because his wife and his baby is at stake here. Every ultrasound scan is a stressful time for the mother to be, but it's even more stressful for the father to be. He would be praying and hoping that there should be nothing wrong with the baby. Handling a woman high on hormones and sensitive to every goddamned thing is a huge task. Making a fussy mom to eat something for the sake of the baby is just the most frustrating thing he has to go through. But in the long run a relationship between a husband and wife also improves after the birth of their child together. This is because finally they have something that was made by them, that links both of them together forever now. Compassion and understanding between them swells after the birth of their baby. Not everyone is born the way they are. As time comes one learns to become what they have to be and with abundant practice, everyone is an expert. No boy was ever a father, but most of them make pretty decent ones too! Kudos to all boys who turned out to be amazing fathers, to all the troubles they had to face through nine months of our pregnancy. This blog is a part of the blogchain #letsblogwithpri. I would like to thank Romila for introducing me to this blogtrain. Do check out her
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