The last vacation that we took just before we got the happy baby news, was to udaipur in Rajasthan. We were just a happy couple then. This was one trip where we actually started talking about becoming an actual family. Never did we expect life to bring us where we are now. Life has changed a lot from being just a couple to being parents. The toll it takes on you is also huge. Life tends to change inside out and routine gets replaced by chaos. Your career, your priorities take a back seat. Even a simple activity like combing ones own hair becomes a tedious job which depends on how much time you were able to take out for yourself after doing all the work that was more important. A personal suggestion would be to take the next step in your marriage only when you are willingly ready for it and not because you feel pressurized by family. Caring and being responsible for a tiny human is a very big and difficult task. 
To be or not to be a parent is one's personal choice, to my husband it's the best decision he had ever made, I on the other hand sometimes tend to think if I was out of my mind to actually take this decision. Happy parenting is the end!
To be or not to be a parent is one's personal choice, to my husband it's the best decision he had ever made, I on the other hand sometimes tend to think if I was out of my mind to actually take this decision. Happy parenting is the end!