Sex is gone! At least for me it was. While trying to become pregnant, sex was always timed and dated. That was quite frustrating at times. It was like torture to be forced to have sex when we have to do it according to medical science. Once we realized we were pregnant, sex was locked up in a cupboard and the key was thrown away. This was mainly because my husband was afraid of hurting the babies growing in my womb. Thank God I was pregnant for only about 7.5 months. After I had my delivery, my C-section scar was a fear for both of us. Also according to Indian culture, we were not to unite for a few months until I regained my energy that I had lost in labour. It went on like this for almost 6 months. It was as if the lost key was never found. Slowly both of us found the courage to have sex. With two babies lying asleep near us was almost a mood killer. And them waking up inbetween our not so romantic endeavours was a big no no! Now with him constantly traveling for work and me being at home with kids has lead us to lead a monk life. I miss the sex. That is something I don't think I could enjoy for another few years or until they have moved into their own rooms. I have to say happy reading books I guess. With all this, I see women becoming pregnant again in just a few months. All I could say I you gotta be kidding me. Well I will never have the courage for such an action ever again.